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Thursday, May 19, 2016

The Business of moving to Misawa

Day 1- Long Term Storage
The movers came to pack up our things that are going to be sent to Long Term Storage and loaded them on the van.  These are items that we want but that we are afraid we will not have room or use for in Japan.  We sent things like our photo albums and scrapbooks, my hope chest, my decorative dolls, our fine china, and the piano.  We will need a piano in Japan so we will just have to buy a keyboard.  It is a lot more expensive to rent a storage unit in Japan but it does make me a little nervous that we will not see any of these precious items for at least three years. 

Day 2- Household Goods
To prepare for the movers, we set up a “Safe zone” in our kitchen. It is a blue taped area that holds all of the items we will take to the temporary living facility, that we need for school, ballet and yoga, and that we will take on the plane.  We also have placed all the unaccompanied baggage into our playroom.  They will be picked up on Day 3. These items arrive to Japan faster and they consist of our clothes, pro gear, kitchen necessities, and toys for the kids.  All of this has taken a lot of prep and a lot of Zip Lock bags (for little items) but I think it will pay off on the flip side.
The movers came and worked fast.  They both boxed and loaded and filled three storage crates.  I have begun leaving “an offering”, as I call it, on the front porch of the items that the movers will not take.  I have left cleaning supplies, food stuffs, kitchen items, lawn care, and car care items out.  Then I post on the Nellis Wives Face Book page and watch people come with wagons to haul the stuff away. It is quite amusing to me. 

Day 3- Household Goods, Unaccompanied Baggage, Temporary Living Facility
The movers are going along well and we have been happy with the fact that they pack the boxes and then load them into the van. This did not happen in Springville and it seems to be a more organized and efficient way of loading.  They took the Unaccompanied Baggage today.  We sorted the kitchen items that we wanted onto the table so they could easily box them and the playroom was full of the rest of the items- toys for the kids, pro gear, our clothing.  At the end of the day, the only things left to pack in the house were the remaining kitchen items and the coat closet. 
We were able to move into the Temporary Living Facility a day earlier than we expected.  We are on the same side of base as our housing so I will just drive the kids to the bus stop in the mornings.  The TLF is roomy enough with laundry facilities, kitchenette, internet, and cable.  Bear was thrilled to have her own little bedroom as the TLF has three.  I told her to soak it up because that will not be the arrangement in Japan.  It was surreal to leave our house and drive down the street to another living arrangement.  I am starting to feel melancholy.  I am starting to say goodbye to people as my yoga classes whittle down and the school year starts to end.  

Day 4- Household Goods, Cleaning Day
The movers took the last of the items and drove the truck away.  All of our memories and belongings are spread between three shipments now and we hope to see them again in time.  We went to the house to say goodbye and reminisce on some of our favorite things about the house and Nellis.  I will miss hearing the kids laughing out on the trampoline.  I will miss watching the kids dance in the living room.  I will miss teaching ballet to the neighborhood kids.  I will deeply miss our across the street neighbors and best friends, the Bloom’s.  I wish there was a way to know what I would have been attached to when we first moved in two years ago.  Then I would have held on to those precious things and savored every moment.  


Sunday, April 3, 2016

Bucket List Spring Break 2016

This year for Spring Break we decided to have a little Staycation, check off lots of things on our bucket list before we go to Misawa.  Las Vegas has a lot of fun to offer and there will definitely be things that we will miss.
Yoga at Valley of Fire State Park

After almost two years of living here, we finally took a photo op in front of the famous sign.

Towne Square Train

Flip N Out Xtreme
Tournament of Kings at the Excalibur

Cheesy fountain show at the Forum shops

Luxor Hotel stay





















We enjoy traveling to the National Parks to take advantage of the free Military entrance.  We went to Joshua Tree National Park and then stayed at 29 Palms, the Marine Base.  It was very nice. We stayed at the Sleepy Turtle Inn and explored the base.  It was a quiet Friday night there but Josh spent some time at the Officer's Club and we checked out the BX and the Commissary.  Surprise, they look pretty much like ours!
Skull Rock at Joshua Tree National Park
 We drove back to Las Vegas through the Mojave Desert National Preserve.  We have really come to appreciate the desert landscape during our two years in Las Vegas.
Scaling the rings at Hole in the Wall, Mojave


Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Orders to Misawa, Japan

Josh has officially received orders to Misawa, Japan.  He was informed about an open mental health position in November so we have known but today it is finally official on paperwork.  There was a lot of leg work and red tape that needed to be done for us to receive the orders.  Josh attended Combat Arms Training, a requirement since this is an overseas position.  He learned weapons safety, weapons handling, and cleaned the weapons.  He shot 7 meter, 15 meter, and 25 meter targets and missed Expert Marksman rank by one shot.

Our family needed to be screened by the Exceptional Family Member Program (EFMP).  Due to Nora's speech (she is in therapy to help her say the "K" and "G" sound) and IEP (Individual Education Plan), we are now enrolled in EFMP.  This means that every time Josh gets a new assignment, the assignment base needs to have the services in place to help her.  This made us a little nervous in that Misawa is a small base.  Luckily, the school on base employs a speech therapist so we are good to go.  

The other thing we have been working on while awaiting orders is obtaining our passports.  I love to travel so since we going to another continent, passports are a must.  The government will issue me and the kids a no fee passport but that only allows us to travel to and from Misawa.  We wanted more options.  We applied for the blue passports in January but we should have applied for the no fee passports first.  It has not always been clear what we should do when and who Josh should be meeting with first.  So far, Josh and the kids have their blue passports and the applications are in for our no fee ones.  Hopefully we will all have them by the time we are to board the plane.
Bear got a new Kimono for Christmas.

Another cool thing about this assignment to Japan is that my dad served his LDS Mission in the area of Japan that the base is located.  In 1972-1974 his mission was called Japan East.  When we were in Utah for Christmas, I read and copied his mission journals.  I have had the distinct impression that I should try to seek out some of the people he served.  He passed away in 1983 so any connections that I have to my father are precious.  I discovered from his journals that he had Thanksgiving Dinner on Misawa base in 1972.  I miss him terribly when I think how excited he would be to teach me Japanese and tell me all about the people and culture.  I know that he would have traveled to see us.  We probably would not have been able to get rid of him! I hope that I can sense his presence in Japan.

We have a lot of work ahead of us as we look at preparing for the move.  We will need to divide our house into the things that we are selling, the things we are taking to Japan, and the things that we will leave state side.  I am working on learning Japanese phrases as I get ready for the day in the morning.  The kids will sometimes join me and Bear is getting pretty good at it.  The kids and I often say phrases to each other but we tend to forget what they mean.  Things will start coming together now that we actually are officially going to Misawa.

Poster placed at the Hospital at Nellis Air Force base, highlighting a great Airman

Josh is awarded an Achievement Medal from Colonel Teyez, head of the Med-Group, for his lead of the Air Force Ball.
Josh is awarded the Company Grade Officer of the Third Quarter for his work on the Air Force Ball and his work as the Family Advocacy Officer at Nellis.

Friday, November 20, 2015

SOS Training- Maxwell, Air Force Base

Josh has started his SOS Training at Maxwell Air Force Base.  This training is a requirement when he advances to his Majors.  The focus is to develop leadership, critical thinking and the ability to use people to effective ways to accomplish goals. They have done a great deal of talking about theory and what is call Full Range Leadership.  Josh is finding it very interesting to hear how other people are facing and overcoming different challenges. They are being taught to think as officers first and then in Josh's case, a social worker second. He is being pushed by the teachers to open his mind to how he fits into the Air Force as a whole.  Josh is going to be put in places and situations that puts him well outside his comfort zone but he loves the idea of growth and improvement. 

The last time Josh left for a five week training felt very final and devastating.   It was the start of his military career and we did not know what we were to expect from this experience.  This time is a little different.  We all miss him, of course, but I guess we are starting to understand the sacrifices of being at home without him as he serves and trains.  I am grateful for Bear and Bub who understand that they need to work with me to complete our household duties in the absence of Josh.  Pants is not quite as helpful, but she is being age appropriate for a four year old.  I am constantly grateful for my kids and Josh.

Trip to Death Valley National Park.  We love to explore the interesting aspects of the desert that we live in.


Saturday, October 17, 2015

USO Events- Parent Child Fun

The USO (United Service Organization) plans a lot of fun and free events for military families.  Josh took the girls to a Father Daughter Dance in February.  He wore his mess dress and the girls looked like princesses.  They ate dinner, danced, took pictures, did princess crafts, and had prize drawings.  It was a magical night for the girls and Josh.



Tonight was the scheduled USO "Momster" event, a mother and son Halloween Party.  At the last minute, they changed the venue to accommodate more people.  The event was changed to a Sunday night.  I did not feel comfortable attending the event on the Sabbath and luckily, one of my friends arranged an alternative date for our sons tonight.  We went bowling and to a free lazer light show at Sam's Town here in Las Vegas.  Bub and I had a great time!
Gamora and Starlord, Princess Leia, Darth Vader, Luigi, Mario



Gamora's little Starlord


Friday, October 9, 2015

When a partnership is missing it's partner....

Josh leaves for Master Resiliency Training next week.  Josh and I work really well together to balance our busy lives and the lives of our kids.  When one of is unavailable though, it all falls apart.  This is what a typical school/work week will look like without my amazing partner:

Monday- Pick the kids up from school and take them to ballet (40 min away). I do homework with one and then switch while the other is in ballet.  Who is at home making dinner?  No one.  Dinner will be McDonald's take out so that we can spend the 40 min home productively and I will not have to clean up the kitchen.

Tuesday- Josh usually picks Bear up from cheer leading so that will be my job.  We will drive to Kumon Learning Center (25 min away) and try to do homework in the car while the kids yell back and forth to me from the back seat.  What will dinner be?  Pizza at Costco which is right next to Kumon.  I will have to miss the one yoga class that I get to attend a week (poor me.)

Wednesday- Drive to ballet again straight from school.  Bear will do homework in the car until she gets car sick.  Bub and I will do homework while Bear is in ballet.  I teach on Wednesday nights so the kids will need a babysitter.  Dinner?  TV dinner night possibly while watching a movie, how cliche.

Thursday- Deep breath, Thursday is my busiest day, the day I teach four classes.  Bear will have no ride home from cheer leading as I will be teaching at the YMCA with Bub and Pants in tow.  Luckily, her coach lives on base and we are friends.  I will have to remember to give Bear the garage door opener. Dinner will be Little Caesar's Pizza that I pick up on the way home.  Then it is off to soccer for Bub.  After the game, a babysitter for the kids since I teach again on base.  I will have to hire a babysitter who helps with homework because that will still need to be done.

Friday- Ahh!  I think I will finally be able to cook dinner!  Though, I may be too tired to make anything.  Maybe I should get some extra TV dinners just in case.

I wonder how long I can keep this up?  Come home soon my amazing partner, come home soon!

Pants - Nellis Thunderbug soccer team


Bear- Varsity Cheer for Lomie Heard Desert Hawk Flag Football Team

Bub- LDS church soccer team coached by Josh



Nellis Air Force Ball 2015

September 26th was a big day for Josh, the day of the Nellis Air Force Ball, which he has been planning for a year.  Since he was large and in charge, we knew that he would be unavailable for a bulk of the night so I took my friend and neighbor, Christie Bloom.  Her husband is TDY completing SOS training at Maxwell Air Force Base so it was perfect for us both.  The ball was held at the South Point Casino and airmen were lined up through the casino to lead the way to the ballroom.  That was a nice touch.  We received a challenge coin as we checked in.  That was a nice little gift too.  There was a heritage room filled with displays from the wings and flights on base.  Josh found us (he looked great in his mess dress) and led us to the ballroom so that we could have good seats.  As we waited to begin, I had three people come seek me out because I was Captain Turner’s wife; TSgt Langley who did the decorations, SMSgt Lancaster who was in charge of ticketing, and Colonel York who oversaw the process.  I felt pretty special and little intimidated by the ranks.  They all had good things to say about Josh and the ball. I was really proud to see the year's worth of hard work by Josh and his committee. 


Josh and me
My "date" Christie
The night started with the posting of the colors, the national anthem, introductions of the leadership, and the ceremony of the POW/MIA table.  Colonel Boutwell, the 99th wing commander, thanked Josh by name for the preparation of the ball.  That was fun to hear!  I like the solemness of the military ceremony.  I was impressed looking around and seeing everyone dressed so well and all the uniforms of blue.  I felt privileged to be attending an event that belongs to an exclusive group.  The entertainment was Matt Goss, a world renowned headline singer at Cesar’s Palace.  He had all the flash of a Vegas show.  Then we ate and Josh checked in on us periodically.  The speaker for the evening was Major General Thomas Deal.  His speech went right over my head but I am sure those who deal in warfare were impressed.  Then they brought out the cake and had the oldest and youngest airmen cut it together.  The night concluded with dancing, either with a DJ in the main ballroom, or the Spasmatics, an 80's cover band, in another room.  Josh continued to come and go as he dealt with things.  The huge event cost $144,000 (all raised from sponsors and ticket sales, no tax payer dollars were used for this event) and served 915 people. I know that Christie and I had a great time at the ball! All of the people that spoke with Josh and I said they were having a great time and that it was full of great energy and a lot of fun. I think Josh will be happy with the event as well. This was an amazing event for Josh to lead.  He has learned a great deal and has met some very amazing people.  

Elegant ballroom



Vegas style entertainment
The Spasmatics

Party people!